I recently read a blog post about pornography that made me cringe. The particular blogger was actually using the post as an apology to previously referring to scantily clad females as pornography. While the apology seemed sincere enough with some repentance involved, the second to last line made me think otherwise: “So, girls, I’m sorry I called you porn. And I didn’t just do it once, I did it over, and over, and over again”.
According to this blogger, “pornography is routinely violent and degrading towards women. It is extreme and depicts the most deprave of situations. It glorifies the exploitation of adolescent sexuality and does so legally. And, at it’s worst, it abuses little children to serve it’s purposes. Sometimes, it rapes them.”
HAVE YOU EVER WATCHED PORN?! This seems like an uneducated, Sunday School definition of pornography. Of course there are extreme versions out there. But to characterize all pornography under this umbrella and then make a backhanded comment of how “immodestly” dressed women are part of this and that they bring out these behaviors in men. AND THEN say but I’m sorry because scantily clad females are not really full-out pornography. LIKE WHAT?!
My point is, we shouldn’t be judging girls on their looks, if they feel most comfortable wearing what could possibly be defined as “immodest clothing” to some people, who gives a shit. Let them wear it, it’s not affecting your life. And also don’t take the liberty of defining things that you have never experienced ( except drugs haha). We are in 2014 now, we need to be living in a society where we remember judging people never results in anything positive. We all just want to be happy. Let it happen.